1. "All men cheat."
Not all men cheat. Men want women to believe that so if it should happen they won’t think that they have any other options in another mate. Women want other women to believe this becuase misery loves company.
2. "If a man has to wait too long for sex he'll eventually seek it out in other places."
Than he should go do that. If you're already bored in this relationship you probably weren't all that interested to begin with- and that's fine.
Think about this analogy: it takes your employer about 30-90 days to evaluate you and determine whether or not you're entitled to full benefits. Just sayin'.
3. Or the "Maybe if I got to know you better sexually I'd be more inclined to want a relationship with you."
Are we still in high school? I think that was the last time I heard that. Truly that's the mark of a highly juvenile, immature man.
4. "Freak your man to keep your man or he’ll find someone to do the things he wants you to do."
As author Maryann Reed states: you want to be with a man who wants to stay, not one you have to keep. If you have to fight to keep him, he wasn't ever yours to begin with. Yes, I think you should do the things your mate likes to pleasure him (as he should want to do the same for you), but it should come from a place of wanting to do those things, not from a place of desperation to hold on to something.