He definitely made his point about how sorry many bm are. This is a pretty interesting 'tribute' to what SOME bw go through with sorry bm.
I cannot even imagine how blunt and direct the videos he spoke about were. I know I would not try to watch them. Just hearing this graphic delivery was enough. However in his own way he was expressing his empathy towards bw and disgust for sorry bm (will not use his term for them).
I can see why you are speechless. I would be curious to be a fly around him to see how he is with his friends. SMH still,
I have never posted a profile on an Internet dating site. It is too easy for people to lie. I will never forget listening to the Kim Komando show one afternoon. She is married with a son. She talks a lot about computers and digital photography. She decided to talk about Internet dating. During this program she got a call from a fellow saying that he used an online dating service. He was check out ladies and saw a lady who said in her profile that she was a Christian woman. Basically everything sounded good except for the fact that on her profile she had a picture of Kim Komando with a quote saying 'yes this is really me'. This is a pretty lame example of how people can lie online.
Of course we have heard sad stories where teens will lie and say they are older or a grown man will lie and say he is 18 to try and snare someone.
It does not surprise me that there are some bm that are that hostile to bw. When I attended a bchurch there were really mean bm attending. Sad to say the meanest one was the pastor himself. The hostility was so bad that it could be frightening. It sounds like there are violent bm out there that could very well carry out their rants.
I don’t view this as the world is coming to an end. In fact, I see it as the reverse. I went to you tube and was amazed by the rebuttals to the filth that the so called Black Israelites were spewing on the streets of New York. I haven’t seen such a pouring of defense for black women on the net ever like this. Black men, like this young man is beginning to see the true light of what black women are going through. It is usually just a few lone black women who take on that task. The video, thank goodness, has been removed by the owner.
Do not live your life in fear because of a sick few. Always have your wits and trust your instincts about vibes you get from people. Make a person earn your trust. Even the most deceptive and wicked will show their true colors when you take things slow with them.
I am very familiar with the Black Israelites in NYC. I've had my experiences with them spewing their hatred at me on a few occasions because I wouldn't give any of them the time of day. They are extremely sexist, chauvinistic and misogynistic. They need to get jobs and stop begging guilt ridden white people for money(this is usually right after they've blamed them for slavery). I can't stand them.
The good thing is Jesus is coming, the bad thing, all Hell is breaking loose and the demons are collecting souls for hell membership. I'm glad that this young man had a life change experience. Basically as we have always said and he is now saying. Black women have to get men of quality whatever race. If those silly men want to rant and rage about black women, make videos about them, tell lies that no body wants them or they are settling, if they marry non-black men, black men cursing them in videos, good for them. Black women just do what we are doing, getting our education, and getting on with our lives. God bless us!
I agree:) We definitely know that those type of men are not for US. They are a non-issue to me. If any man comes around me and believes the lies that they hear and read in the media they are not worth my time. Ladies have fun with men that respect you. Otherwise stay by yourself AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.
I'm a fan of Dejuan P. on Youtube. He offers great insight into the black man's mindset. Sadly, there are segments of black men that seem not to like black women who fit outside their prescribed little box. It's easy to turn a blind eye to these men but I would encourage black women to watch and listen to these fools. Know your enemy because that's what they are...not your friend, not a caring black man trying to correct a wayward sister...your enemy bent on nothing less than your total destruction. Even though they are outliers on the bell curve, there are black men who fall along the misogyny curve. Funny thing is that they call themselves black Israelites so black women should adopt the Israeli's mindset: everyone is out to get you! Be alert and be aware to everything and everyone. Protect yourself and your family. Do nothing that puts you in danger or makes you vulnerable to your enemies. *sighs* Sad that we have come to seeing black men as the enemy but with fools like this...one can never know.
I like how he pointed out that black men go and sleep with these other women, because they know they can come back home to black women etc. The extreme loyalty of bw to bm and that we need to become more open minded to dating others.
It's great that a brother sees how many brothas treat black women. Hopefully many start to open their eyes.
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He definitely made his point about how sorry many bm are. This is a pretty interesting 'tribute' to what SOME bw go through with sorry bm.
I cannot even imagine how blunt and direct the videos he spoke about were. I know I would not try to watch them. Just hearing this graphic delivery was enough. However in his own way he was expressing his empathy towards bw and disgust for sorry bm (will not use his term for them).
I can see why you are speechless. I would be curious to be a fly around him to see how he is with his friends. SMH still,
Wow....I couldn't even finish it. I too am at a loss for words. Except...it scares me that men like this are running around free.
::running to delete my pics from dating sites::
I am scared.
It is so sick.
I have never posted a profile on an Internet dating site. It is too easy for people to lie. I will never forget listening to the Kim Komando show one afternoon. She is married with a son. She talks a lot about computers and digital photography. She decided to talk about Internet dating. During this program she got a call from a fellow saying that he used an online dating service. He was check out ladies and saw a lady who said in her profile that she was a Christian woman. Basically everything sounded good except for the fact that on her profile she had a picture of Kim Komando with a quote saying 'yes this is really me'. This is a pretty lame example of how people can lie online.
Of course we have heard sad stories where teens will lie and say they are older or a grown man will lie and say he is 18 to try and snare someone.
It does not surprise me that there are some bm that are that hostile to bw. When I attended a bchurch there were really mean bm attending. Sad to say the meanest one was the pastor himself. The hostility was so bad that it could be frightening. It sounds like there are violent bm out there that could very well carry out their rants.
Pretty sad indeed.
Ok, Pamela..you've just upped my scared to freaking terrified..lol.
But,seriously...deleting pics.
Looks like this brotha just had a life-changing experience. Bless his heart!
I don’t view this as the world is coming to an end. In fact, I see it as the reverse. I went to you tube and was amazed by the rebuttals to the filth that the so called Black Israelites were spewing on the streets of New York. I haven’t seen such a pouring of defense for black women on the net ever like this. Black men, like this young man is beginning to see the true light of what black women are going through. It is usually just a few lone black women who take on that task. The video, thank goodness, has been removed by the owner.
Do not live your life in fear because of a sick few. Always have your wits and trust your instincts about vibes you get from people. Make a person earn your trust. Even the most deceptive and wicked will show their true colors when you take things slow with them.
I am very familiar with the Black Israelites in NYC. I've had my experiences with them spewing their hatred at me on a few occasions because I wouldn't give any of them the time of day. They are extremely sexist, chauvinistic and misogynistic. They need to get jobs and stop begging guilt ridden white people for money(this is usually right after they've blamed them for slavery). I can't stand them.
The good thing is Jesus is coming, the bad thing, all Hell is breaking loose and the demons are collecting souls for hell membership. I'm glad that this young man had a life change experience. Basically as we have always said and he is now saying. Black women have to get men of quality whatever race. If those silly men want to rant and rage about black women, make videos about them, tell lies that no body wants them or they are settling, if they marry non-black men, black men cursing them in videos, good for them. Black women just do what we are doing, getting our education, and getting on with our lives. God bless us!
I agree:) We definitely know that those type of men are not for US. They are a non-issue to me. If any man comes around me and believes the lies that they hear and read in the media they are not worth my time. Ladies have fun with men that respect you. Otherwise stay by yourself AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.
I'm a fan of Dejuan P. on Youtube. He offers great insight into the black man's mindset. Sadly, there are segments of black men that seem not to like black women who fit outside their prescribed little box. It's easy to turn a blind eye to these men but I would encourage black women to watch and listen to these fools. Know your enemy because that's what they are...not your friend, not a caring black man trying to correct a wayward sister...your enemy bent on nothing less than your total destruction. Even though they are outliers on the bell curve, there are black men who fall along the misogyny curve.
Funny thing is that they call themselves black Israelites so black women should adopt the Israeli's mindset: everyone is out to get you! Be alert and be aware to everything and everyone. Protect yourself and your family. Do nothing that puts you in danger or makes you vulnerable to your enemies. *sighs* Sad that we have come to seeing black men as the enemy but with fools like this...one can never know.
I like how he pointed out that black men go and sleep with these other women, because they know they can come back home to black women etc. The extreme loyalty of bw to bm and that we need to become more open minded to dating others.
It's great that a brother sees how many brothas treat black women. Hopefully many start to open their eyes.
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